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PANEL DISCUSSION – LESBIAN HEALTH THROUGH
THE AGES
Ages 0 to ten: Dr. Tamar Gershon
She believes that ages 0-10 is the most critical decade in lesbian
development for mental & physical health. She suggest we:
Be aware of and sensitive to kidsThink of what is it like for young girls to be aware of gender
issues.
Three books that deal with lesbians and gender identity (Tomboys
& Sissies (1999); Call Me Lesbian (1992); and Tipping the
Velvet (1998))
DSM- diagnosis of gender identity may be removed.1st wave of feminism---promoted discussion + definition of “tomboyism.”Cross sex behavior in boys is more negatively viewed than in girlsIdeas for therapies ŕ better than reparative therapy is to help
children lessen depression & anxiety
Ages 11-20: Caitlin Ryan
Her current study is on Lesbian Youth Development & Health issues
(Cognitive and emotional development, social skills, relationships,
autonomy/intimacy, consolidate identity, what is multiple identity,
sexual identity, & stigma related issues)Average Age event occurs
First awareness of same sex attractionFirst same sex experienceWhen self identify as lesbian or gay
Young women:
Are separating & evolving earlier
Are negotiating puberty in the age of HIV/AIDS
Have no role models, cannot project into the future
Are challenging passive, reactive roles of older gays, coming
out at a younger age
Are coming out in contexts that don’t help them
Research on Lesbian youth
Neglect areas—only 12 articles in 30 yearsA few qualitative studies Youth risk behavior studyAnecdotal info is limited
Family Acceptance project
Funded by Cal. Endowment
Study of LGBT youth—including family, ethnicity & sexual
orientation
Initial observation
Age average 17—sexually activeMany are politically active but harassed for itGay Straight alliance- only place for gay kids at schoolsLiterature focuses on problems, not strengths
Ages 20-29: Helen Smith & Leah Crask
Problems in Research: Studies of lesbians in early twenties often
lumped with lesbian youth or older lesbians. Little research is
specifically geared toward women in their twenties (20-29).Characteristics of 20-Something Sexuality and outreach ideas were
discussed.The following topics were reviewed: Partner Abuse, Sex & STDs, Drug
& Alcohol Use, Body Image, Healthcare & Employment. Partner Abuse: Lesbians have the least reported cases of
domestic violence. However this does not mean partner abuse among LBT
people is uncommon, or not worthy of research. Support groups are still
needed for lesbians specifically. Substance Abuse: Studies have found that alcohol use among
lesbians is associated with reported feelings of: Low self-esteem,
Anger, Frustration, Isolation, Problems concerning sexuality, and
Patronizing of a lesbian or gay bar in social interaction. STDs/STIs: Risk factors associated with STI rates among
lesbian women: Alcohol & Drugs, Sex with men, unprotected sex with men &
women, Personal sense of invulnerability or low self esteem. Some
lesbians believe they can not get STDs via sex with other lesbians,
others believe that if they are at risk their sexual partner will
disclose any potential harm of STIs before they have sex. In addition,
some lesbians feel they have the same risk of getting STDs as anyone
else. Body Image: Many women stated that coming out had greatly
improved their body-image and self-esteem yet many of these women showed
high rates of eating disorders, weight concerns and low body esteem.
Though some women no longer felt confined by heterosexist beauty
standards they did feel restricted by a new lesbian standard of beauty
and attractiveness, which included physical strength and a particular
dress code. Describe a shift from needing to look “feminine” enough to
looking “dykey” enough. Employment opportunities & health care:
Ford (1997) found
that in a population of lesbians aged 20-29 more people experienced
employment discrimination based on gender rather than sexual
orientation. Lesbian and bisexual women were less likely to have health
insurance, more likely to have been uninsured in the preceding year and
more likely to have difficulty obtaining needed medical care.Some similar health concerns as heterosexual women, differences
include: external and internal homophobia, lesbian culture (sexual
practice, drugs & alcohol, body image, partner abuse, etc.), the need
for different prevention programs focused on LBT issues, and less social
support from family, friends, providers, & certain institutions.
Age 31- 40 Sherron Mills

Sherron Mills spoke about lesbians who choose to become pregnant via
alternative insemination.Internet makes much of this possible. One can learn about the
insemination process and select donors online. Sperm banks are easy to
find online.After 35, women are less fertile. Some reports state women become
less fertile starting at the age of 27.It can take several cycles to become pregnant. She advises to take
vitamins 3 months before getting pregnant to increase chances for
pregnancy.Women/lesbians should be educated to be aware that fertility
declines early (encourage women to prepare and plan if they want to have
children, before it is too late.)In US lesbians don’t get enough help getting pregnant—hard to find
clinicians that will work with lesbians. Many clinics will refuse to
help a lesbians become pregnant.
Ages 41-49 Rani Eversly
- The problems in research in LBT women ages 41-49 are:
- Absence of population based data
- No studies connecting sexual orientation to disease outcome
- She believes the following are needs that should be addressed when
doing research and addressing concerns of LBT women ages 41-49:
- Mental health issues that lesbians experience, substance abuse,
anxiety, depression
- Physical changes- weight gain, lesser physical stamina, changes
in sexuality
- Social losses—less age appropriate social network
- Increase in family responsibilities
- Stability & retirement become issues
- Role of stress
- Social, psychological impact
- Chronic stress + daily hassles
- Stressful life events
- Traumatic stress
- What is role of discrimination in stress
- How does social isolation affect this
- What are compounding effects
Age 51 to 60 Sue Dibble-
Lesbians and Cancer Risks

When you start getting older if you haven’t gotten cancer, you will
notice that people around you will start getting it.Cancer is a disease of aging.Cardiovascular disease starts in 40’s, but manifests laterOvarian Cancer Risks-
Genetics
Fertility drugs
Using talcum???
No births
Breast cancer risks: Drinking, being “chunky”, not giving birth to
kids, HRT, exposure to radiation, being less than 12 with first period,
starting menopause over 55, and having the breast cancer gene.
Age 61 to 70—Marcy
Adelman—a psychologist and
senior housing activist
Keep doing research to and get political support. Anecdotal stories
don’t work.
She is on board of open house.
They are planning mixed income housing for LGBT seniors.
It will be a senior village in San Francisco, CA.
It will be a multicultural hub.
The preferred site is Hayes Valley.
There will 225 units, 25 dementia units, and a wellness center.
Final survey results of 300 LGBT adults, ages ranging from 18 to
92.
50-50 and 60 + are two oldest groups
There is vulnerability in these groups: financial resources &
health
Often they have no kids to become caregivers
They also have higher incidence of chronic difficulties
70 PLUS Joyce Pierson
at NCLR
She has been working in Aging programs since the 70’s
She brings academic & grassroots perspectives together
Access to legal tools that make a difference
She has helped develop legal services & workshops
Legal services, eldercare, and healthcare are civil rights
Joyce’s opinions
There is a lot of fluidity in life stages.
We are pioneers to make lesbian life more meaningful
Old women are the makers of civilization
Older lesbians often have decades of shame & stigma they are
dealing with
Aging is very individual
American Society on Aging—helps lesbians & Gays—40 workshops
for G/L issues & training
GENERAL SESSION PLENARY
BRENDA CRAWFORD

Came out in New York, before Stonewall & women’s movement, at 16
years old she was encouraged by African-American lesbian & gay male
friends to look at herself
Most people she came out with are dead of alcoholism, high blood
pressure, etc.
Then she writes proposals to get funding to create programs she
wants to design methodologies that do not exploit her research subjects.
Emotional/sensitivity is required. We must know how to ask
questions.
She wants to eliminate health disparities of black lesbians. She
said we need to learn how to have discussions about: racism, ableism,
sexism, and classism in lesbian community.
Learn to talk about differences in an empowering way. We have more
to learn by working together look to for similarities, and respect
differences.
PANEL DISCUSSION—Sexual
Health in 2003
Moderated by- Trinity Ordona, PhD
Reviewed the historical development of identity politics. Pacific
Islanders were the last to be colonized. Asia has different forms of
social discriminations.
Marny Hall -
(Why Limit me to Ecstasy?)
She spoke on the midlife sexual concerns of lesbians in long-term
relationships.
Standard fusion model
sex is redundant so why bother to have it
Learn to talk about differences in an empowering way. We have more
to learn by working together look to for similarities, and respect
differences.
Sex is a big fable. Its rigid truths are actually malleable.
2 master narratives about sex:
First, hyper romantic-- hot, sexy passion is our certification
Second, the evil twin—lesbian bed death
The above 2 eliminate the middle ground
Venerate your early sexual experiences, then so for sustainable sex
practices
Lesbians often prescribe “bed death” to medical reasons—not enough
testosterone, or too much Prozac…
The pharmaceutical companies need a follow up to Viagra. If the
reason for “bed death” is community + social + cultural diversity there
is no pill.
Her advice to those in long-term relationships where sex has
decreased: “Believe in occasional rapture but practice sustainable sex.”
Jessica Meyer (Pregnancy,
Gender Identity and Invisibility: Young Queer Women)
Her focus was on young, queer women’s health, and looks at:
Where are they at
Where we are in history
Sexual health needs of young queer women
Queer women are different now than 10 years ago
They may have been kicked out of their home
When youth first come out, they are very passionate.
Her exercise- 3 facets of one person
1. Identity (public face, what they
say)
2. Orientation (inner thoughts &
feelings)
3. Behavior (what is done with the
body)
Tina, first example
1. straight, except when she goes
to her queer youth group
2. fantasizes, attracted to girls
3. when I go out with my friends,
I end up with a guy
a. I have a girlfriend no one
knows about
Joey, next example
1. identify as a boy with people
I trust, but at school I am a girl
2. I always felt like a boy at
every age since I was little
3. I always wear men’s clothes
4. If you feel you are a boy it
is hard to get the female parts of your body to the doctor
5. Young people’s identities
don’t line up, but often, neither do adults
Amy Andre
(Sexual Health Needs of Bisexual Women)
Unique needs of Bi-women: mental health, pregnancy, and STD
prevention
What it means to be Bi varies from woman to woman
It could be a political identity
It could be feelings, inner emotions, attractions
It does not have to be behavior
Don’t assume any behavior is bad. Some feel that bisexual women are
dirty and carry STDs into the lesbian community. This is
prejudice—sexual orientation does not transmit disease, unsafe sex does.
Information from health care providers needs to be broad &
non-judgmental
Ask about, honor & validate every woman’s orientation label
People choose orientation labels for a lot of reasons, but in the
end people are attracted to people
Dr. Trinity Ordona
(Healing from Sexual Violence)
Sexual Violence is seriously under-reported. Rule of thumb: 2
out of 3 females have been subjected to or witnessed sexual/gender
violence.
Multiple marginalization factors facilitate violence and further
complicate the effects of sexual violence in our lives: Race/Ethnicity,
Social Class, Gender and Sex, Sexual Orientation, and Gender Identity.
Effects of Sexual Violence on Self
Diminished mental health, low self-esteem - Depression,
anxiety, fear, self-hatred
Risky health behaviors - Smoking, unprotected sex, not seeking
help
Addictive behaviors - Food, alcohol, drugs; gambling
Self-harming behaviors - Cutting, physical pain as an intense
sensation to combat numbness
Effects of Sexual Violence on Self and Relationships with Others
Sexual dysfunction (disinterest in sex, lack of arousal,
orgasm)
Fear of intimacy, commitment
Inability to experience or sustain healthy intimacy and
partnership
Reproduction of cycle of violence in intimate partner
relationships
What can I do if I have experienced sexual violence?
Remove yourself from the scene
Seek professional help (medical and psychological assistance)
Seek social support (family, friends, support groups)
If that is not enough, what next? Self-Healing Practice
“Each patient carries her/his own doctor inside of her/him. They
come to us [physicians] not knowing this truth. We are at our best
when we give the doctor who resides within each patient a
chance to go to work.”
Albert Schweitzer, M.D.
To Norman Cousins, Ph.D.
The Body Never Forgets. Our bodies remember/store experiences just
as our minds do. In a way, our experiences are also stored in our skin,
and touches can trigger positive and negative memories. When our bodies
“remember” these clues, we react. It may be a smile, or it may be fear.
Vibrational Medicine can be used to help release the trapped
energy:
Homeopathy
Chinese acupuncture
Chakra (energy center) therapy
Energy psychology, applied kinesiology
Meditation practice
Affirmations and prayer
Body work
Complementary Therapies
Again, the question is . . .
How to tap my (unconscious) healer?
Start Your Own Self-Healing Practice
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